what is love?

Women are in search of 1 man to satisfy all her needs. Men look for every women to satisfy their 1 need. Do men even want love? Of course! Every human wants to be loved. The important thing to know is women fall in love men look for love. Sounds crazy right ladies? It's not it's the truth. As women we date a guy and see if he feels our qualifications. We slowly fall in love with man they make a choice. Yes just like ordering at a restaurant. I'll have a burger,soda, oh and let me get a side of love..yes I want love. That may be exaggerated but not by much. Men usally judge themselves on their work not their love relationships like women. So love is more of a logical choice. He thinks better seek love don't want to be old an alone..better seek love I need to sew my seed in the world...better find love tired of washing the dishes lol! I know you've herd of guys who were in a relationship for years. They broke up and he married the next women in less then a year of meeting. It's very simple he was ready and made a choice to open his heart to love. Don't kill the messenger here but if your man isn't programmed for love nothing you can do will change that. So if you have a guy who only speaks "woof woof" run now! You can save yourself some heart ache now. However, if your the lucky women who caught him once he flipped the switch hold onto him...it's going to be a bumpy ride. We all have different love languages if yours aren't the same you might as well be speaking to your spanish neighbor. The 1 who speakano Enlish. Your man's love language could be give me, stroke me, help me or touch me. Mind out of the gutter they just sound naughty but are actually quite sweet. It's up to you to find out what makes your man feel loved. He also should make the effort to find out what makes your heart thump. Of course we all can be a combination but usually 1 stands out more. If your guy is a "give me" type he feels loved when you give to him. The value of the item is not always important. It's the idea of you giving him something the idea of you thinking of him when you see an item. He loves gifts and can even turn into a little kid when you bring him a new gift. If this is your man you'll know because birthdays and Christmas are his favorite events. If your guy is a "stroke me" lover he feels loved when you stroke his....EGO! The more you tell him he's smart, strong, and the king of the castle the more he feels loved. Ladies we're talking about guys and they all love ego stroking but this guys needs it to feel loved. He wants to know and hear how proud you are he took the trash out. He wants to know you wouldn't have been able to get the oil changed with out him. If your guy is the "help me" type he feels loved when you make an effort to help and support him. He's the guy who makes a plan and wants his women to say "what do you want me to do hun?" He's the guy who likes to pay the bills together and go shopping "together" He also likes his women to be a great listener. It helps to give him feed back and input that can help him when he asks. Our final guy is the "touch me" guy. Pretty self explanatory but it doesn't have to be sexual. He really likes to be touched on the arm, caressed on the back of the neck. Intamacy is an important part of love for this guy. He may be very comfortable an in touch with his feminine side. With this guy a great massage after a long day of work can scream "I love you" to him. Now that you have the languages...go try and speak to yo man.... LOVE Chynudol