Let's talk about sex baby, let's talk about you and Me!

" It's not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean"is a classic right ladies! It's very true unless your mini me is a super mini me. Then Fellas you must up your game by 10 in all other departments. Yes it is 2012 and some ladies still fake orgasms! There are also women including married women who have never achieved an orgasm...at all. Something very wrong with this picture..but ladies you can't put all the blame on your man. Your just as responsible as he is..remember "know thy self" Clearly quite a few of you do not. There can be soo many reasons you may not achieve 1. THE MAIN REASON FOR MOST WOMEN is the mental state. So many women are told at a young age that sex is a horrible thing. Mostly by a caring parents. One who doesn't want to be a grandparent at 37. Other reasons include emotions, physical attraction and positioning. Most women still need an emotional connection to their partner. Most men don't need an emotional connection to their partner at all. Maybe it is the womens duty to uphold the morals of the world....So the emotional card or the lack thereof for men is why a man can still have orgasm happy, mad, and yes even sad. Where as if a women is having a bad day he may too cause nothing is going down that night. For some women attraction plays a key. Not that he has to be 6'2 Reggie Bushesq but every women has a male type that gets her moist. It could be Tom Cuise to Rick Ross. Every women is different the attraction can very well be the males role in society or his ability to provide. If it's not there it can also add to a women not acheiving the big O. Men also have an "ideal" but that doesn't mean he won't still go out and and have his fun with the "non ideal" several times. Yes even the ones he would never openly speak to in public. To a man this ladies becomes an assisted masturbation partner..he doesn't care about the package just wants to get inside. Positioning can change the game up for everyone involved. Not every position works for everyone. What one women may deem as painful another will see as blissful. You have to know what works for you. Just as important as position is the rhythm. Some women are team jack rabbit. They enjoy a fast pace constant thrust while others are team slow grind. They enjoy something that looks like a dance off of one of Rhiannas videos. She needs to know what works best for her and tell her partner. It may not be his favorite rhythm but he can get back to his once her song has reached it's climax. Overall, sex is like beauty it lies in the eye of the beholder. If you make an adult choice to engage in it..you should enjoy it! If your married you should enjoy it times 10! It's 2012 and ladies you should vote yes for orgasms! They're not just for men any more. Love MzChynudol®jyou